Tuesday, December 11, 2007

You Think You Know but You just Have no Idea

I have become slow and less regular in blogging, all due to increasing workload and stress at work. I promise to be back to my usual regularity once I get some little more release from all the assignments i have to deal with at the moment.

But this time i just cant not write anything as some crazy mad angel told me it is about time and i promised to write something today :D

Here I am with TUESDAY LOVE RAMBLINGS.




Maybe it will be harsh on someone but thats the way i think life is going.

Sometimes things happen that we would prefer to avoid.
Sometimes you leave someone or you are left.
Sometimes all you have left are the memories.
And sometimes you are just not able to let go....

It is easy to talk about it, when it doesnt concern you.
It is simple to give advice when it is not you crying all night long.
It always seems to you that you just know better.

You think you know but you just have no idea....

And it is hard to be there when your friend is suffering.
It is difficult to find the right words to make them feel better.
It is impossible to take their pain away when all you want is them being happy.

Because no words of yours will ever be able to cease the pain.
No actions of yours will make them forget, forgive and believe again.

You think you know but you just have no idea....

Dont assume your friends dont know what they have to do.
They know precisely.
They have been told it several times.
They told this to someone else several times.
But they just can not. Not easy... needs time, needs strength, needs understanding.

And you are helpless there, watching them destroy themselves, suffering, losing their identity in trying to save the little of their love left - sweetest memories.

You think you know but you just have no idea....

And all you can do is to be there for them, to give your care, love, support, understanding.
To make them believe that life can be better than this. And it is not easy when all your friend is able to see is darkness and uncertain future without someone they love....


You think you know but you just have no idea how much your friends need you at this time....

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--xh-- Tuesday, December 11, 2007  

"all you can do is to be there for them, to give your care, love, support, understanding'" true - though we tend to know many times that we understand, it is not easy. the best thing friedns can do is to be there for them and give them the care and love and support.
Nice one, lena :)

Lena Tuesday, December 11, 2007  

@ xh:
yes, just sometimes we wish we could do more for them and when it doesnt work out we will sad for them. Once we realise that sometimes just being there is enough, we all will be more content :)

--xh-- Tuesday, December 11, 2007  

"Once we realise that sometimes just being there is enough, we all will be more content" - absolutly true. I learned it in the hard way :)

divya Tuesday, December 11, 2007  

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand.

These are my favourite lines i read somewhere..though all this is so true we never seem to stop giving advices to friends..coz we just HOPE that a little thought of ours can bring big difference in their lives.

I never hesitate to take advices from friends... lol thats a different matter whether u really follow them or not :D but i do take advices :P

btw leenu janu..if ever u want advice on anything...divvi is there :P

Lena Tuesday, December 11, 2007  

these are great lines :)
thanks for sharing, sweetheart!!
well.... we are giving advice all the time and will never stop :D
And i know, divvi sweetu, that you are always there .. either to give advice or to take it ;)

Sameera Tuesday, December 11, 2007  

Those are golden lines there darling!We think we know,but we do not know much more...

But you for one knows what a friend should know about how friends should know each other!That's why you are my Silly Lilly!Love ya loads sweetie.Muaaaah

Lena Tuesday, December 11, 2007  

considering todays events I think i really know :P lolz

Love you, girl! :)
**hugs**

Nature Nut /JJ Loch Tuesday, December 11, 2007  

lena, I hope you know how special you are!!! I'm sending your blog link to my daughter because I want her to experience your insight and inspiration. :D

Hugs, JJ

Lena Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

jj, thanks a lot for seeing me and my posts like this :)
hope i am really having so much insight and giving that much inspiration :D
not that i am sure in this, just trying to be a good person :)

Lena Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

lol, abhishek, from all said above you only liked the pic :D
thank you thank you :D

Dusty Fog Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

beautiful...one has to understand that, I can never FEEL your pain, or you MINE. I can only tell you things based on my expereinces of a similar sort of a situation.
Personally, I only suggest. i don't usually advise. never works does it....: )
be well.

Lena Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

@ dusty fog:
:) you are rightthough suggestion is also a kind of advice. I believe we always give advice but we should understand that the other person might need something else other than words but the feeling of having someone to hold on, someone who cares, someone who is your friend :)

hope Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

Very nice.. i can relate to every word you wrote..
You right.. we say we understand.. but in real we really have no idea what one is going through.. :(

Lena Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

right, very much right, hope :)
thanks for dropping by :)

Bubbles of FireWhisky Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

its so easy to say "i understand" even though you know that you dont... we think that maybe the words'll just make everything ok... that they might take away the pain that our friends or the people around us are feeling... when actually the actions count louder than words...

anonme Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

lena dearest!
again n again ur writings make me feel so much!
they make me smile, cry, think, love, hate, feel good and wat else?

this one here did bring tears to my eyes!
love u so much!!
and its so good to be back.. :)

umangexuberance Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

hey!
just dropped by and loved what you right..and yes u are right no one knows but the person who is going through it all..at the time it is not a lecture or sound advice to just forget the past or to let go which works..it is just a simple silent hug that can work wonders..

keep it up
take care
#umang# :)

Lena Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

Mann, dear, you are right - words are not enough, actions show more, saying we know is not the same as actually know :)

Lena Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

akki!! welcome back, sweetheart! feels great to see you back to blogging :)
as for the posts, i am glad they make you feel, hope they dont make you sad or upset :)

Love you too, sweets :)

Lena Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

"it is just a simple silent hug that can work wonders" - couldnt have been said better, umang :)
thanks for coming by :)

Ameya Wednesday, December 12, 2007  

"They have been told it several times.
They told this to someone else several times.
But they just can not. Not easy... needs time, needs strength, needs understanding".

Gosh!! lovely lena! I have nothin more to say, i read it thrice,and i wanna read it again :)

Lena Thursday, December 13, 2007  

thank you, sweets :)
but ameya, dear, i dont think it deserves to be read for so many times ;)
have a great day dear!! :)

Nick Phillips Thursday, December 13, 2007  

Hey, I can relate to the no time to blog thingy, I've been pretty busy the past few days that I'm way back in my postings ...

Oh, and nice layout by the way ..

Lena Thursday, December 13, 2007  

hi, Nick!
yes, work takes a lot of time which otherwise could have been devoted to blogging :D
thanks i also like my template :D

Ashu Thursday, December 13, 2007  

Agree with most of what you say

Sam Thursday, December 13, 2007  

well said.... kinda dumbstruck after reading such beautiful lines!!
and frankly, we really ahve no idea in teh sitations u've described... we really don't!! kinda od.. but den very true!!

Lena Thursday, December 13, 2007  

i am glad you have the same opinion at some points, ashu :)

Lena Thursday, December 13, 2007  

thank you, Sam, for appreciating :)
and yes, it is odd but the bitter truth though when we realise it, it is easier to be there and to support :)

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