Friday, October 19, 2007

I am back

I have been kind of sick lately, just today got back to my dear computer and then i realised how much i missed..................................... hmmm...not the computer... but my friends and family, people who give me the strength and encouragement. It felt amazing but unbelievable how many people left messages wondering where have i gone. So now i announce i haven't gone anywhere, i am here only :) And will try not to scare people with my absence anymore!! Can not promise though. Anyways it is a short introduction only, will post some new (read: old) thoughts in the next entry.

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Tuesday, October 09, 2007

Decision Making

A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused. Only one child played on the disused track, the rest on the operational track.

The train is coming, and you are just beside the track interchange. You can make the train change its course to the disused track and save most of the kids. However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused track would be sacrificed. Or would you rather let the train go its way? Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make.
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Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child. You might think the same way, I guess. Exactly, I thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally. But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was. This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.

The great critic Leo Velski Julian who told the story said he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens. If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track! Moreover, that track was not in use probably because it was not safe. If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.

(from another forward mail)

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Monday, October 08, 2007


“I’ve got to know that to become happy you need to experience the periods of total unhappiness. When you haven’t studied at the university of sorrows, your happiness can not be durable. Love lives in the hearts for long only when both of partners know its price. And it is better to pay in advance than afterwards. We are not ready for happiness, because we are not used to suffer. “

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Miracles happen!

Miracles Happen... Anytime, Anyplace, Anywhere....
But only if you BELIEVE!

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Fight for things that are worth it!

When things don't go the way you want doesn't mean you give up!! It's hard to give up on something you know may never happen...but it's even harder to give up when it's all you ever wanted.

Giving up is not falling down and feeling knocked out.... It is refusing to stand up. Whenever you feel that things go wrong and are afraid you can give up, remember why you have hold on for so long in the first place. We don't get things for granted, we live for them, we fight for them, we give our best to achieve them. And when we don't succeed it does not mean we were bad or not good enough, it only means that next time we should try harder.

Don't believe if someone says you won't make it. Those who say it can not be done should not disturb the ones who are doing it. Remember what is important for you, what matters, what you live for.

And now think if you give up who will do it for you? The answer is NOBODY!
Then why give the others the pleasure of their being right about you. The greatest fun in life is doing something other people said IMPOSSIBLE!! Fight for what you think is worth it, stand up for what you believe, protect the things you love. We just should remember we are not knocked out until we think we are not! And then you can achieve the impossible, believe in things that matter the most for you, believe that you can and fight for it, fall down, stand up and fight again, and never ever give up on things and people that are worth being in your life!! :)

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Monday, October 01, 2007

have a greatttttt day everyone!!

I know i didnt keep my promise, but i am so much caught up with work these days that i know i will be forgiven. After all i am writing now :)
Now some update about life. It goes on, and it goes on much more quickly that it is expected. Already october, so much to do, so little time. Trying hard to manage, am successful till now but it is painful in a way that i hardly get time for myself not to mention someone else.
Weekends are often just a lie down, when i cant do anything but sleeping, eating and watching movies. sometimes it feels like wasting time but it is more like filling myself with some energy.
Work is going good but hectic, too many expectations... my boss wants me to do the impossible and i am so much afraid i really will not manage, that would be horrible.
Now something more positive!! No matter what life brings there is a need always to keep smiling which will make your day and the day of people around you brighter!! :) And again i wonder why blogger has no smilies ... grrrrrrrrrrrrrr... not that i am angry but it is really disappointing!!
i know i am talking crap now but who cares - after all thats a free world of blogging and i just want to say what i want. Especially want to make people believe that i am still alive :)
BELIEVE ME!!! I AM!! and i will be back very soon :)

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Sunday, September 30, 2007

Promise

Just a promise to everyone who still keeps on coming to this page and finds nothing but the entry from 22nd august!!!
I will update!!... promise.... i will do it tomorrow :)

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Wednesday, August 22, 2007

back to work...

back to office... work is like crazy, people are somewhat stupid - probably because of all this unexpected heat - i cant bear it ...
and thats not much fun to be seniour staff - hehe - work pressure is really too much, deadlines come one after another.. though i guess i lie - it is sooooooooooooooo fun!!! I love it!!
the only bad thing i dont manage to chat with people, even after office am too tired to do this.. though they dont show much interest too :D - sorry, kidding only :)
and again sorry got to do work!!! :P
and sorry for saying sorry ;) - and for using that much sorries too :P
there is one more bad thing, but then if i dont talk about it then it seems like everything is fine :)
ok, leaving now!

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In my my life I've learned so much
Just to look and not to touch
Smile now to hide the pain
Pretend there's sunshine when there's rain
Mind the time you spend with friends
Because all new beginnings have their ends
In my life I've learned a lot
Not everything is worthy of being fought
The end of a rainbow doesn't mean a pot of gold
Always let someone warm you when you're cold
Always remember life is a gift
When you're walking alone a friend will give you a lift.
In my life I've learned a bit
You'll never get a point if you don't take the hit
That sometimes it's okay to be alone
But to know there's always comfort back at home
Dreams shouldn't die as we grow wise
The truth is always found in another's eyes
In my life I haven't learned as much as I thought
But I'm proud because I 've learned what nobody's taught.

**found in net, author unknown

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