Saturday, January 27, 2007

Men's rules

When i got to read this i laughed a lot ;) - it is way toooooooooooooooo funny but true as well :P
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We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note ... these are all numbered '1' ON PURPOSE!
1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear uscomplaining about you leaving it down.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
1. Yes, and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.
1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did not need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation, or monster trucks.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round is a shape.
1. Thank you for reading this; Yes, I know, I have to sleep on thecouch tonight, but did you know men really don't mind that, it's like camping.

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Friday, January 26, 2007

just so...

theres a little truth behind every *justkidding*
a little curiosity behind every *justwondering*
a little knowledge behind every *idontknow*
and a little emotion behind every *idontcare*

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dont know how it is with all other people but i must admit that it is exactly like this with me...

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If i had my life to live over...

by Erma Bombeck (written after she found out she was dying from cancer).

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner."
There would have been more "I love you's."
More "I'm sorry's."
But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it .. live it ...and never give it back.

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Only when we realize how short a life can be we start to appreciate the common moments of it.
The power of commom words. The ones we never repeat because our loved ones are supposed to know how much they mean to us... And only later we realize how much we missed by not telling them how wonderful and special and amazing they are ... because we can never know which time is the last one... Keep telling each other good things, make each other smile, show your dear ones how much special they are because tomorrow it might be already late...
-Lena
PS: a bit too philosophical, that happens to me :P

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Someone like you

A very soothing, just great song by Van Morrison - is today's song of the day :)

I've been searching a long time
For someone exactly like you
I've been travelling all around the world
Waiting for you to come through.
Someone like you makes it
All worth while
Someone like you keeps
Me satisfied. Someone exactly
Like you.
I've been travellin' a hard road
Lookin' for someone exactly like you
I've been carryin' my heavy load
Waiting for the light to come
Shining through.
Someone like you makes it
All worth while
Someone like you keeps
Me satisfied. Someone exactly
Like you.
I've been doin' some soul searching
To find out where you're at
I've been up and down the highway
In all kinds of foreign lands
Someone like you...
I've been all around the world
Marching to the beat of a different
Drum.
But just lately I have
Realised
The best is yet to come.
Someone like you...

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should i really give titles to everything? :O

The craziest week i have ever had for the last months... feel so exhausted, didnt have much time to update because of work loads :(( Feel extremely tired, want to cry and to die right now because of this stupid feeling of helplessness :(( life is sure great but sometimes it is annoying, just have a wish to leave this Earth and find a more peaceful place where there is o work, no bosses, no colleagues ... well few people are allowed, may be less than few people :O... a couple of them, or may be i'll go there alone..will enjoy silence, sleep a lot and relax.... dont know though for how long i will be able to stay there alone :O hehehe..i need for sure some people around me, may be even one will be enough ;) Just you and me, love - what do you think? ;)

well..please dont wonder if this entry is quite senseless... first - i got only 2 hours of sleep for the last 48 hours :P and second - because i am being constantly interrupted :D and distracted :P

well... now i lost the point...hehehe..i guess whoever will read this will think i am going mental :D
it is soooooooo meaningless. So i better finish this entry and start a new one. And please pray for a new entry to be a better one ;)

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Saturday, January 20, 2007

Talking about Fool's Garden just feel the urgent need to post here their song "Lena" ;)
There is just an amazing guitar part in the beginning...

I just don't know the reason
don't know the reason why
You tell me you are weary
There are clouds in your sky
Put your hands on my temples
Can't you see it in my eyes
Raise your head against the wall
You don't have to disguise yourself

Lena

Just another morning
just another day
Another day without you
another lonely day
I feel your breath in my eary
your fingers in my hair
Your sweat, your lips, your voice, your face
though you're not there

Oh Lena ?can't get you out of me
Oh Lena ?can't get you out of me

Ashes on the table
heavy rains they fall
The firmament gets dismal
colours on the wall
Draw me to the rainbow
I'm trying to resist
Cut the ground from under my feet
Tear me out of that midst

Oh Lena

Everywhere I go
everytime I try to sleep
Everything reminds me
I feel the pain so deep
Please tell me anything
and stop the circles move
The pain is growing stronger
because I still love you

Lena

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The song of the day

I fell in love with this song from the very beginning, back in 1995, being 14-years young girl, having no idea of what the song is about..I never really cared, just loved it a lot and still am loving it a lot. And may be even more since the day i could actually understand the lyrics ;)

Artist: Fool's Garden
Song: Lemon Tree

I'm sitting here in the boring room
It's just another rainy Sunday afternoon
I'm wasting my time
I got nothing to do
I'm hanging around
I'm waiting for you
But nothing ever happens and I wonder

I'm driving around in my car
I'm driving too fast
I'm driving too far
I'd like to change my point of view
I feel so lonely
I'm waiting for youBut nothing ever happens and I wonder

I wonder how
I wonder why
Yesterday you told me 'bout the blue blue sky
And all that I can see is just a yellow lemon-tree
I'm turning my head up and down
I'm turning turning turning turning turning around
And all that I can see is just another lemon-tree

I'm sitting here
I miss the power
I'd like to go out taking a shower
But there's a heavy cloud inside my head
I feel so tired
Put myself into bedWell, nothing ever happens and I wonder

Isolation is not good for me
Isolation I don't want to sit on the lemon-tree

I'm steppin' around in the desert of joy
Baby anyhow I'll get another toy
And everything will happen and you wonder

I wonder how
I wonder why
Yesterday you told me 'bout the blue blue sky
And all that I can see is just another lemon-tree
I'm turning my head up and down
I'm turning turning turning turning turning around
And all that I can see is just a yellow lemon-tree
And I wonder, wonder

I wonder how
I wonder why
Yesterday you told me 'bout the blue blue sky
And all that I can see, and all that I can see, and all that I can see
Is just a yellow lemon-tree

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Friday, January 19, 2007

Be close with someone who makes you happy. But be closer to that person who can't be happy without you! Feel the difference....

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Weather :O

I promised to write and as i always keep promises i will do it now...I will write about the weather :O What? :O Why cant i write about the weather? :O It is my blog and i can do whatever i want to :P hehehe...any doubts? OMG...am i talking to myself? :O i need to consult a doctor ;)
anyways back to the topic....it is terrible.... :((( the weather i mean :((((

IT IS RAINING!!!!!! ON THE 19TH OF JANUARY!!!! RAINING!!!! :(( OMG

OMG


OMG

And no snow.... not a single snowflake :O




:(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sadddddddddd
And no sun .... no sun for the last 3 months :O only clouds and clouds and clouds......



Thats all about the weather :P
Have a good night!!! :))

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The song of the day

Thanks to the friend for sharing :)

Artist: Nelly Furtado
Song: "All Good Things (Come To An End)"

Honestly what will become of medon't like reality
It's way too clear to me
But really life is daily
We are what we don't see
Missed everything daydreaming

[Chorus:]
Flames to dust
Lovers to friends
Why do all good things come to an end
Flames to dust
Lovers to friends
Why do all good things come to an end
come to an end come to an
Why do all good things come to end?
come to an end come to an
Why do all good things come to an end?

Traveling I only stop at exits
Wondering if I'll stay
Young and restless
Living this way I stress less
I want to pull away when the dream dies
The pain sets it and I don't cry
I only feel gravity and I wonder why

Flames to dust
Lovers to friends
Why do all good things come to an end
Flames to dust
Lovers to friends
Why do all good things come to an end
come to an end come to an
Why do all good things come to end?
come to an end come to an
Why do all good things come to an end?

Well the dogs were whistling a new tune
Barking at the new moon
Hoping it would come soon so that they could
Dogs were whistling a new tune
Barking at the new moon
Hoping it would come soon so that they could
Die die die die die

Flames to dust
Lovers to friends
Why do all good things come to an end
Flames to dustLovers to friends
Why do all good things come to an end
come to an end come to an
Why do all good things come to end?
come to an end come to an
Why do all good things come to an end?

Well the dogs were barking at a new moon
Whistling a new tune
Hoping it would come soon
And the sun was wondering if it should stay away for a day 'til the feeling went away
And the sky was falling on the clouds were dropping and
the rain forgot how to bring salvation
the dogs were barking at the new moon
Whistling a new tune

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I really really really wanted to write something but i've got busy :((
And i am writing this giving myself a promise to write later tonight :P

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Few love quotes by children :)

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."
- Chrissy - age 6
"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."
- Danny - age 7
"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,"
- Nikka - age 6
"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well."
- Tommy - age 6
"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."
- Jessica - age 8
"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."

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Sunday, January 14, 2007

Each of us is a star. Sometimes we shine with the rest. Sometimes we twinkle alone. Sometimes when we least know it, we make someone's wish come true.

- on my friend's Orkut Profile :)

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Saturday, January 13, 2007

the song of the day

Artist: Caleigh Peters
Song: Reach

Sometimes it seems like you’re falling
Falling out of the sky
Sometimes it feels like you’re slipping
And running out of time
And that’s when you’ve gotta throw it all away
All of the things that people say
And all of the doubts that fill your mind
Don’t belong there

Whatever you do, you’ll never be wrong
As long as you reach for it
When you reach for it, nothings to far
And its never to long, as long as you reach for it
You can dream on it, everywhere its there

Sometimes I can be stupid
I can get out of line
But most times you know what I’m doing
Its not like some big surprise
Oh and I, I just want to make you understand
That failing on me isn’t in my plans
And all of the doubts that fill my mind don’t belong there.

Whatever you do, you’ll never be wrong
As long as you reach for it
When you reach for it, nothings to far
And its never to long, as long as you reach for it
You can dream on it, everywhere

There’s so much distance
Between what you want and what you’ve got
But if you really want it-its your life So you gotta try
You’ve gotta fly
Whatever you do, you’ll never be wrong
You can reach for it
You can reach for it

Its never to far and its never to long
As long as you reach for it.
You can dream on it, everywhere
Everywhere
Everywhere
Everywhere

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Thursday, January 11, 2007

WHY?

i cant say i hate life but whenever i think i start to understand it it makes something that makes me feel stupid...WHY? just tell me WHY? i know it is sooo stupid to ask WHY THEM? and not someone else???? and it is also very unfair on this someone else...nobody deserves it...nobody should go through it, especially not when someone that young, someone who has his whole life to live...but then it turns out they dont... how can it happen that someone dies when he is 24, isnt it too early? what is the age of death??? is there any? why do small children die? why do young adults die? WHY? i dont get it...
I lost my friend today... just got the news after i came home from work... one call and someone is dead...sooooooooo strange...only a minute ago you think of him as a someone you are going to see in a few days but then ...then there is nothing anymore...one call...one word...one life...so unfair..so early....so....untrue...i cant believe it even now, after some hours have gone ... dont really remember how i spent these hours..after crying out everything i had inside...only talks to strangers, people i dont know could distract me in a way... but only distract, they cant make forget, they cant give comfort and support..i even cant share this with them...
strange ..i am typing this and crying and i know that i will never ever hear his voice, laugh at his teasings, shout at him when he did something i asked him not to do...cry with him when another of his gf leaves him...just be with him..never...never..NEVER!!! seems the part of me has gone..like forever..it is unbearable, the pain is unbearable..life is unbearable..how could it happen??? WHY? questions in vain...they never will be answered, not for me, not for his family, not for the girl he was going to marry...

i guess i just cant say anything else now...it is too hard... too ....just too much for me...


PS: and where the hell have you been, love, all day long... needed you so much...

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Tuesday, January 09, 2007

bad dreams

Had a bad dream last night...woke up crying, it hasnt happened for quite a long time now..hope wont happen for such a long time again :) parisa says that if you cry in a dream it brings happiness, but what if you cry not in a dream but after it :O Anyways i dont believe this crap ... dreams are just dreams, the natural reflection of our fears and worries hidden in subconscious mind.... am i not smart? :P Anyways, really hope that wont repeat...ever..for the first time, love, wanted you sooooooo badly to be with me when i woke up...just to hold me and say that everything will be fine :) but you werent there...though of course not your fault..
Hope to have the sweetest of all dreams tonight - just sabse meethe sapne :)...jarror i'll have them ;) or at least i will believe it :)

Good night, world!
Sabse meethe sapne!
Сладких снов! :)

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Monday, January 08, 2007

Do you want to know about yourself?

The quickest personality test ever ;) - http://www.psicologi-psicoterapeuti.it/test/testpersonalita.html

Just wondered how much true it was about me....
Romantic Dreamy Emotional
You are a very sensitive person. You refuse to view things only from a sober, rational standpoint. What your feelings tell you is just as important to you. In fact, you feel it is important to have dreams in life, too.
You reject people who scorn romanticism and are guided only by rationality. You refuse to let anything confine the rich variety of your moods and emotions.

hehe..though i have a rational side too ;)

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If one day...


If one day you feel like crying...

Call me.

I don't promise that I will make you laugh,

But I can cry with you









If one day you want to run away--

Don't be afraid to call me.

I don't promise to ask you to stop...

But I can run with you






If one day you don't want to listen to anyone...

Call me.

I promise to be there for you.

And I promise to be very quiet.






But if one day you call...

And there is no answer...

Come fast to see me.

Perhaps I need you.



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Sunday, January 07, 2007

Christmas..

Finally it is Christmas for us too..The peaceful time of the year, the family time, when you do realize that there is no more important thing that your family, no more important people than your loved ones :)...the ones who will always be there for you, the ones you can count on and rely on..people who know who you are and still love you...who know you are not an angel but treat you like you are one..who believe in the best for you and who never ever will let you fail ..they are here with you, all your life long, but you realize it on special days (like Christmas) only...
Just sometimes ...they dont understand you, they drive you crazy, they get playing on your nerves....they are getting annoying, they are just impossible...but they are family *sigh* and we love them....and they do the same in return :)
And sometimes you meet people who are closer to you that your family ever was, ever will be ... and they are family as well :) may be even more than that...Strange you realize these things only on the day like this ... but the main point is that you realize it after all :) ...

Peace on earth will come to stay, When we live Christmas every day.

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Friday, January 05, 2007

"Think Outside of the Box"

Imagine this...
You are driving along in your car on a wild, stormy night. It's raining heavily when suddenly you pass by a bus stop, and you see three people waiting for a bus:

1. An old lady who looks as if she is about to die.
2. An old friend who once saved your life.
3. The perfect partner you have been dreaming about.
Which one would you choose to offer a ride to, knowing very well that there could only be one passenger in your car? Think before you continue reading...
This is a moral/ethical dilemma that was once actually used as part of a job application.
You could pick up the old lady because she is going to die, and thus you should save her first; or you could take the old friend because he once saved your life, and this would be the perfect chance to pay him back.

However, you may never be able to find your perfect mate again.
The candidate who was hired (out of 200 applicants) had no trouble coming up with his answer. Guess what his answer was?

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He simply answered: "I would give the car keys to my old friend and let him take the lady to the hospital. I would stay behind and wait for the bus with the partner of my dreams."

Sometimes, we gain more if we are able to give up our stubborn thought limitations. Never forget to "Think Outside of the Box."

So what was yours?


- Another Forward Mail

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MEEEEEEEEEEE


Just felt like posting some pic here ;)
Chose this one, dont know why...
I guess, just because :P


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Wednesday, January 03, 2007

whatever happens....

sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past .. stop planning the future .. stop trying to figure out precisely how we feel .. stop deciding with our mind what we want our heart to feel and sometimes we just have to go with "whatever..happens..happens"

- Author unknown

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